Hi all, haven’t posted for two years. I’m still trying to stick it out in my marriage, for the kids sake, grinning and bearing it. I’ve tried the Athol Kay - Married Man Sex Life MAP plan, to some limited success. It essentially entails stepping up your game to create instability in the marriage, leading to improvement in the fat spouse and if that does not work, an ultimatum. Has anyone else here tried it? Any success?
One definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing and expecting a different result.